You are growing apart rather than together.
Peace in your relationship is important to you, but there is little peace now.
Every little thing becomes blown out of proportion and ends in an argument. You are unable to resolve differences of opinion.
Events that happened in the past are hard to get over, making it difficult to move forward.
Now, the two of you seem like strangers.
Feeling close to one another is in the past.
Even though both of you have changed over time, you expected your relationship to stay the same.
There is no connection between you anymore. You don’t seem to share the same goals and values, and communication is impossible.
The attraction you have for one another now is not the same as it was in the beginning.
Why can’t we agree on things?
Each of you sees things differently.
Parenting decisions are incompatible, making it impossible to maintain consistency.
Even the most minor things result in disagreement.
Things that didn’t matter before now bother you.
Grow together, not apart.
Couples therapy helps mend broken relationships. In our work together, I am on the side of your relationship – not one person.
My goal is to help the two of you learn how to improve your communication. Listening to what your partner says enables you to understand each other better, especially in terms of each other’s emotional needs.
You can regain the closeness you once had. One person can make a change in the relationship by doing things differently.
Let’s work to help you become close and work as a team again.
Contact me today at (360) 480-0027 so we can get started.